هوووووو دا تامر حسني نجم جيلنا ....شوفوا اسرار تامر حسني ...

secret
تامر حسنى ....... السر

Tamer….. just Tamer…. the human, the friend, the brother, the son and the lover. Away from fame and spotlights, over an intimate talk for two hours, we shared memories, secrets and hopes.

Many of us know Tamer as a singer, actor, composer, and lyricist, very few know Tamer the human, although his fame is tremendously wide, his close circle of trust is very narrow. During this intimate talk we tackled places that had a no entry sign before and we tickled feelings that was never uttered.

تامر .... تامر فقط بدون حسنى بدون القاب ..... تامر الانسان،
الصديق، الاخ، الابن، و العاشق. بعيد عن الشهره و الاضواء،
فى حوار حميم على مدى ساعتين تبادلنا الذكريات، الاسرار و الامال.

الكثير منا يعرف تامر المغنى، الممثل، الملحن و الكاتب.
قليلون جدا الذين يعرفون تامر الانسان و على وسع شهرته
و لكن دائرة الموثوق بهم ضيقه جدا. فى هذا الحديث الحميم
دخلنا الى اماكن كانت تحمل سابقا لافتة ممنوع الدخول و داعبنا مشاعر لم تمس من قبل.

With a simple question yet can have millions of answers we started to discover Tamer the human.

بسؤال بسيط و لكن يحمل العديد من الاجابات بدأنا باكتشاف تامر الانسان.

What is love?
Just one word, Giving.
Giving without any expectations, else we cannot call it giving, if I waited for something in return then it will be exchange and this can happen with any person, but when we love we wait for nothing back.

ايه هو الحب؟
كلمه واحده، عطاء
عطاء من غير ما نستنا مقابل لان لو استنينا مقابل ده يبقى مجرد تبادل و ده ممكنن يحصل بين اى انسان و التانى من غير ما يكونوا بيحبو بعض بس اللى يحب بجد يدى و ما يستناش مقابل.

If you are in love, what kind of things would you give your girl?
My whole life would be at her disposal, everything I have would be hers, which includes my love, care, tenderness and protection. I cannot stand to feel that she needs something and I cannot give it to her….. I will give her Tamer, the whole Tamer.

لو انت بتحب، ايه الحاجات اللى ممكن تديها لحبيبتك؟
حياتى كلها هتكون تحت امرها كل حاجه بتاعتى هتكون ليها،
حبى و حنانى اهتمامى و رعايتى و حمايتى.
مش هقدر استحمل انها تكون عايزة حاجه و انا مقدرش اديهالها.
هاديلها تامر كل تامر

Love and pride, can they live together?
No way, if my girl and me love each other there is no place for pride between us, if we are together and noticed her shoelace is untied, I would bend over in the middle of the street to tie it up to her. I can cry in her arms, show her my weakness, and tell her that I need her, that she is my haven.
I can be very strong during work, stern and very serious, yet I would go out meet her, throw myself in her arms and be a baby.

الحب و الكبرياء ممكن يجتمعوا مع بعض؟
مستحيل!! لو انا و حبيبتى بنحب بعض مفيش مكان لكبرياء او كرامه بينا،
لو احنا مع بعض و لاحظت ان رباط جزمتها مفكوك
هنزل فى وسط الشارع و اربط لها الرباط. ممكن ابكى فى حضنها
و يبان قدمها ضعفى و اقولها انى محتاج لها انها ملاذى و ملجأى.
انا ممكن اكون فى شغلى و بزعق و متعصب و جد جدا و اخرج
من الشغل اترمى فى حضنها و اكون زى الطفل.

… So you won’ be shy to cry in the arms of the one you love?
Yes, who else would receive my tears if she is not the one? But... I would never cry if she is breaking up with me, that what I call unreasonable weakness as that situation would break my image in her eyes forever.

معنى كده انك مش هتتكسف تبكى فى حضنها؟
ايوه مش هتكسف و مين غيرها يشوف دموعى؟؟
و لكن .... مستحيل ابكى لو هى بتنهى علاقتها معايا لان ده هيكسر صورتى قدامها للابد.

What would possibly make you cry?
Unfairness mostly, and if someone wants something so bad and incapable of doing it. I also can get so emotional while watching a movie. For example like “7een Maysara” in the scene where the boy was begging his foster mother not to leave him alone, that scene put me in tears in a second.

و ايه اللى ممكن يخليك تبكى؟
الظلم!!
و لو شفت واحد نفسه يعمل حاجه قوى و مش قادر يعملها.
كمان انا ممكن ابكى من مشهد مؤثر فى فيلم زى فى فيلم حين ميسره
لما الولد كان بيترجى مامته اللى ربته انها متسبهوش المشهد ده خلانى ادمع فى لحظه

If you are unhappy with your wife, would you consider divorce?
No way, impossible, I would never choose to live away from my children or deprive them from the joy of living with both their parents.

لو اتجوزت و لقيت نفسك مش سعيد مع مراتك ممكن تطلقها؟
مستحيل!! انا اتحرمت من ابويا و مستحيل انى اخلى ولادى يحسو الاحساس اللى انا كنت بحسه كل يوم.

If you had the urge to confess your love to a girl because you cannot hold it anymore, but she is at work in the moment what would you do?
Just walk in among people tell her “I Love You” in the presence of everyone.

لو انت بتحب بنت و خلاص مش قادر تكتم حبك جواك و هى فى شغلها هتعمل ايه؟
هدخل فى وسط الناس و اعترفلها بحبى.

Everyone…. and Loudly?
Yes, loudly. Is love something to be ashamed of? It is the most significant thing that can happen to a person, so the one should be very proud of it.

فى وسط الناس؟؟
اه و بصوت عالى هو الحب حاجه اتكسف منها؟؟ ده الحب احلى حاجه ممكن تحصل لاى حد و الواحد المفروض يكون فخور بيها جدا.

What is the most romantic scene you could think of?
I tend to be bold in love, I wrote and composed a song “Ya Ta3ebny” in my new album about someone who saw a girl for the first time, and felt that all what he wants to do in the moment is run to her and take her in his arms. So I consider boldness in love is one of the most romantic scenes.
Also a scene where a man is protecting the girl he loves.
And finally, A man getting to marry the girl he loves.

ايه احلى لحظات الحب فى نظرك؟
انا بحب الجراه فى الحب انا كتبت اغيه اسمها يا تاعبنى بتقول عمرها حصلتلك دى تبقى لسه شايف حد و انت لسه متعرفوش، تبقى نفسك تجرى عليه تحضنه و تنام فى عنيه و انت لسه متعرفوش......... د واحده من احلى لحظات الحب.
و لحظة ما ادافع عن حبيبتى و احميها
و لحظة ما اتجوز حبيبتى

Can you tell if a girl loves you even if she didn’t confess it, and how?
Of course yes, from the tone of her voice, her body language, the way she looks to me, the place she chose to sit, and mostly, if she tries so hard to hide it by ignoring me or acting as if I am not there, as much as she tries to hide her love, it becomes very obvious.

ممكن تعرف ان بنت بتحبك من غير ما هى تقولك؟؟
طبعا ممكن. من تون صوتها و حراكاتها و نظرتها ليا و اكتر حاجه لو حاولت على قد ما تقدر تخبى حبها كل ما تحاول تخبى كل ما يبان عليها اكتر.

What season would you consider more romantic?
Winter… its cold, and what would be more romantic than cuddling with the one you love.

الشتا ولا الصيف رومانسى اكتر؟
الشتا ..... برد و احلى حاجه فى البرد ان الواحد يدفى فى حضن حبيبه.

So would you prefer to walk on the beach, or in the rain?
In the rain.

تحب تتمشى على البحر ولا تحت المطر؟
تحت المطر.

The girl vs. boy relation, how do you see it?
I always describe the love relation as a car, if a girl trusted a boy to drive a car, she is surely confident that he knows how to drive a car, so let him drive and feel safe.

البنت و الولد لما يكونو بيحبوا بعض يكون شكل العلاقه ازاى؟
بصى علاقة الحب زى العربيه لو البنت وثقت فى الولد انه بيعرف يسوق هتركب معاه....... خلاص يبقى تسيبه يسوق.

So you like to lead in the love relation?
Yes, but I don’t call it leading, I call it protection, and it is a fact that I am the stronger human in this relation and more capable of protecting her. And I think that the real femme would love to feel protected.

يعنى تحب تكون انت الطرف المسيطر؟
ايوه بس هى مش سيطره هى حمايه و خوف عليها الحقيقه بتقول انى الطرف الاقوى فى العلاقة و انى الاقدر على حمايتها و البنوته الحقيقيه تحب تحس بالحمايه دى

Tell me a situation you consider one of the funniest.
It was that day when I was a teenager, I was in love with a girl with me in school and I really wanted to see her, so I thought of acting like Romio. So confident in myself I went to her house, she was living in the first floor, I climbed up and sat on her window, she was so afraid her dad comes so I told her, “what dad honey am here, trust me!!” and suddenly I looked down found her dad climbing up to catch me. I had no way out but to jump in the girl’s room and head to the apartment door, I opened the door to find him in front of me, so I started running around the dining table and he is shouting at his wife “7alla2y ya Zizi” finally I managed to reach to a window and jumped out… this was the funniest and most embarrassing situation

قوللى على موقف مجنون او مضحك حصلك
اقولك ..... كان فبه بنت كنت لسه ببتدى معاها قصة حب فى المدرسه فى ثانوى و كنت عايز اشوفها فقررت انى اعمل روميو وواثق من نفسى جدا رحت رايحلها تحت البيت و كانت هى ساكنه فى الدور الاول رحت متسلق الشباك الارضى و طالع قاعد على شباك اوضتها و هى تقوللى انا خايفه بابا ييجى و انا اقولها بابا مين يا بنتى انا موجود ماتخافيش و فجاه لقيت ابوها بيتسلق و طالعلى رحت ناطت جوه الاوضه مانا مفيش قدامى سكه تانيه و طلعت من الاوضه على باب الشقه عشان اهرب بفتح الباب لقيت ابوها فى وشى طلعت اجرى لجوه و بقيت الف حوالين ترابيزة السفره و امها طلعت على الصوت و ابوها عمال يقولها "حلقى ... حلقى يا زيزي" فى الاخر طلعت اجرى على الاوضه و نطيت من الشباك

….. and what about the girl?
Never saw her ever again, she disappeared from school … LOL

طب و البنت؟؟
ماشوفتهاش فى المدرسه تانى .... اختفت.......

Do you believe that dreams can come true?
If the person believes in his dreams, they will definitely come true, whenever there is a will there is a way.

بتصدق ان احلامك ممكن تتحقق؟
لو الواحد صدق احلامه بجد اكيد هتتحقق.

… So what’s your dream for yourself, for your parents, for your brother, for your friend and finally for your country?
For myself, personally, I wish to marry a girl I love. And on the artistic side, I wish that one day when they mention an artist who can sing, act, compose and write lyrics and novels, they mention my name.
For my parents, I wish them happiness for the rest of their lives and I wish that sad days miss them always.
For my brother – Hossam- the most kind and tender brother, I wish he stays by my side for the rest of our life.
For my best friend – Mahmoud- That our friendship remains the same for the rest of our days, Mahmoud came to me at a time when I thought there was nothing called friendship, he made me regain my trust in friendship, we had fun together, prayed together and protected each other.
For my country, Tamer took a long gasp before telling me, well, many things for my beloved Egypt, I wish unfairness disappear, I wish the traffic becomes tolerable, I wish we stop calling each other names, I wish that mosques and churches become full of people, I wish it becomes the best country ever, I wish we live in it and love it Muslims and Christians as we always did.

احلامك ايه لنفسك و لاهلك و لاخوك و لصاحبك و لبلدك
لنفسى.... ان لما يقولو فيه فنان بيعرف يغنى و يمثل و يكتب و يلحن يقولو اسمى
و ف حياتى الشخصيه... اتجوز بنت بحبها.
لاهلى..... انهم يعيشوا فى سعاده و ميشفوش يوم وحش تانى
لاخويه..... ان ربنا يخليه ليا و نفضل نشتغل مع بعض طول عمرنا
و لصديقى.. "محمود" ... ان صداقتنا تستمر طول العمر، انا عرفت محمود فى وقت كنت بقول فيه مفيش حاجه اسمها صديق، حبينا بعض فى الله زى ما كنا بنخرج مع بعض كنا بنروح نصلى مع بعض.
لبلدى...... تامر اتنهد قوى و قال ... حاجات كتير
نفسى الظلم يختفى
و الزحمه تخف شويه
نفسى نبطل نشتم بعض فى الشارع
نفسى نبقى احلى و اشيك بلد
نفسى المساجد و الكنائس تتملى بالناس
نفسى ميبقاش فيه حاجه اسمها مسلم و مسيحى عشان ده عمره ما كان موجود
نفسى...

What is your favorite movie, song, book?
Movies: Ghost, Just Married and “Isha3et Hob”
Songs: Ana Lak Alatoul and Earth Song for Michael Jackson
Book: The Secret.

ايه اكتر فيلم بتحبه، اكتر اغنيه و اكتر كتاب بتحبه
فيلم: اشاعة حب
The Ghost
Just Married
و اغنيه ..... انا لك على طول و
Earth Song “Michael Jackson”
كتاب The secret

Where would you like to travel?
I do not like to travel, actually I tend to suffer from home-sickness during my short travels, and I cannot wait for the day I am returning home.

بتحب السفر؟
لا انا مبحبش اسافر و لما بسافر فى شغل بكون مستنى اليوم اللى ارجع فيه و بكون سعيد جدا انى راجع

Do you love children?
Yes, a lot and I know how to deal very well with them, I have the ability of soothing any crying child

بتحب الاطفال؟
قوى... و بعرف اتعامل معاهم كويس و اعرف اسكت بيبى لو بيعيط

Do you love pets?
I love all living creatures, especially dogs. I had a cat named “Misho” I used to feel so guilty for leaving her alone even for a couple of hours. During the shooting of my latest movie – Captain Hima- there was a cat who gave birth recently in the shooting location, I asked them to shift the location entirely in order not to bother her, I got her milk and we became friends

بتحب الحيوانات؟
جدا و الكلاب بذات و بتصعب عليا جدا!! انا كان عندى قطه اسمها ميشو كان مستحيل اسيبها لوحدها ابدا لازم يكون حد معاها.
فى تصوير كابتن هيما كان فيه قطه ولدت فى لوكيشن كنا هنصور فيه خليتهم غيرو مكان اللوكيشن بعيد عنها شويه عشان كانت خايفه جدا على ولادها و جبتلها اكل و بقينا اصحاب قوى

What Are the things you cannot go out without?
My prayer, I can never go out without praying.
Mobile
Wallet
My guitar.

ايه الحاجه اللى لازم تكون معاك و انت خارج
صلاتى. لازم اكون مصلى
و الموبايل
و محفظتى
و الجيتار لازم يكون فى العربيه دايما

Do you love chocolates?
Yes, I do with all means.

بتحب الشيكولاته؟
اه قوى

Do you know that a man who loves chocolates tend to understand the woman?
Yes I know so, and I also know that he understands how to make her feel feminine.

تعرف ان الراجل اللى بيحب الشيكولاته بيفهم البنت قوى؟
ايوه و كمان بيعرف يحسسها بانوثتها

What are your favorite quotes?
“What goes around…. Comes around”

ايه مقولتك المفضله؟
كما تدين تدان.

What is the message you are trying to convey?
“Love is my message”

ايه هى رسالتك؟
الحب رسالتى

Quotes from Tamer’s best friend – Mahmoud.
Tamer is the kindest, most tender and supportive person to his friends and family. He is so forgiving and sensitive. What I consider defects in Tamer, is that he tends to trust in people that shouldn’t be trusted, and he always neglects his health and well being for the sake of work, actually he is a workaholic.

We share many things together, Tamer and myself are volunteers in “Operation Smile” organization, it treats children with cleft lip and palate, As a surgeon myself, we go together for medical missions in remote places to treat those children, Tamer spends a whole day with the children, sooth and comfort them, this is one among many things that makes me proud that he is my friend.

كلام محمود صديق تامر على تامر
محمود على فكره جراح تجميل شاطر جدا... متطوع فى جمعية الابتسامه بتعالج الاطفال اللى بيعانو من الشفه الارنبيه بدون مقابل .. بيسموه فى الجمعيه دى صانع الابتسامه
و ادى كلام محمود على تامر.
تامر هو اطيب و اجدع و احن شخص على اهله و اصحابه و متسامح جدا.
العيوب اللى شايفها فى تامر انه بيثق فى ناس بسرعه جدا و مش بيهتم بصحته خالص و بييجى على نفسه قوى عشان الشغل

بنتشارك فى حاجات كتير انا و تامر متطوعين فى جمعية عملية الابتسامه انا كجراح برسم البسمه على شفايفهم و تامر بيرسمها فى قلوبهم بيفضل معاهم طول اليوم يهديهم و يطمنهم و يلعب معاهم و يدخل الفرحه فى قلوبهم دى حاجه من حاجات كتير بتخلينى فخور ان تامر صديقى[b]